tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498980983523584859.post4036016645715417924..comments2023-04-12T04:31:11.971-06:00Comments on Reflections of a Butterfly: Feeling Rather Blue for Some Reason...Emerging Butterflyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03308150825693906532noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498980983523584859.post-78173171327105350492011-03-21T20:47:36.726-06:002011-03-21T20:47:36.726-06:00I was lucky enough to have a wonderful friend who ...I was lucky enough to have a wonderful friend who had been through pregnancies after loss. I can't count the number of times I called her to tell her I was worried because I'd had some cramping or was it round ligament pain or maybe my water broke/was leaking or the baby hadn't moved enough/at all today, or I was just plain irrationally, uexplainably scared that I would lose this baby too. She would reassure me that everything was probably fine, but best of all she would tell me that it was OK to feel this way. That I had EARNED the right to be crazy and paranoid. She gave me the permission I needed to allow myself to not feel guilty for felling all those things unlike so many others who would tell me to not orry or to think positively. It is so normal. We who have been through this know all to well that sometimes pregnancy does NOT equal a living, healthy baby in the end. My dear frind would then encourage me to call my dr and she'd explain for the millioneth time that that's what I was paying the dr to do. Having someone to share the harrowing and hopefully joyful journey of pregnancy after loss is vital. Good luck with your rainbow baby. I will be praying for you all!JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10708248412644348931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498980983523584859.post-19537696775905503902011-03-21T10:24:06.194-06:002011-03-21T10:24:06.194-06:00I dont want any more loss either... Holding you cl...I dont want any more loss either... Holding you close to my heart and sending much love.Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4498980983523584859.post-59234037895859565102011-03-21T08:36:45.171-06:002011-03-21T08:36:45.171-06:00I have had so many of the same feelings and the em...I have had so many of the same feelings and the emotions kept changing throughout my pregnancy after loss. It is just so hard at times. Feel free to look back at my pregnancy after loss blog (http://journeyofloveandhope.blogspot.com) if you would like. I too wish I could win an unbroken heart. Sending many good thoughts your way and always thinking of you! xxxJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15349971620040597427noreply@blogger.com